Thursday, December 07, 2006

Christmas Memories

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Please, please... come on in. I'm so glad you are here. Even if you do not come with your own Christmas memory to share, please come and just relax. The music is playing (turn up your volume), the fire is burning, hot drinks are served, plenty of goodies for everyone, and throws are available to keep out the winter chill. Today warm hearts of friends gather sharing a quiet moment of Christmas together here in "My Quiet Corner".

Come share with us, sit with us, remember with us.
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I was about 11 years old with 3 siblings younger than me. It was Christmas Eve. We gathered together as a family. My parents shared the news. There would be no gifts this year.

It had been a hard year. A very difficult year. There was no money left for the toys of Christmas. We usually received socks, toothbrushes and other essentials for living. Those would probably be there. The rest was not possible.

I could see the disappointment in their eyes. They so badly wanted there to be more. There just wasn't. We began to talk about the meaning of Christmas... the gift of the small baby Jesus, being healthy, able to be a family, the food we would share, the games we would play...

I went to bed happy from the gifts I had already been given. Parents that loved me, food on the table during a difficult time, and a pair of new socks. I had settled in my heart that Christmas would be a glorious time as it always was.

The Christmas tree was up and lit. There was snow outside. There would be smells of food inside. We would recite from memory the Christmas story together as a family. Wasn't THAT really what Christmas was all about? (That is my other favorite memory... every year, we all recite Luke 2: 1-20 together as a family, in unison. Oh wait, did I just sneak in a 2nd memory? Ooopps!! *grin*)

I fell into a quiet, peaceful sleep. Tomorrow was Christmas and I was excited to celebrate!

When we woke I thought I was dreaming. Packages were bursting from beneath the tree. They were spilling into the living room. It couldn't be. What of the talk the night before??? I stood in amazement and disbelief.

We kept questioning our parents for answers. They would say nothing. Each and every gift under that tree had names on them. Names of the family members who they were to, and a name as to who it was from. Each and every gift we opened that year said, "From Jesus".

To this day my parents still have not divulged the full truth. When we would ask where the gifts came from, their answer was always the same... from Jesus.

Rumor has it that after we had gone to bed that Christmas Eve, a family brought over the packages all wrapped, tied with bows, and addressed. They had provided gifts for each and every one of us that year. It was the best Christmas of all.

I caution you to not think it was the best Christmas because we received gifts. Quite the contrary. To a little girl, of course the brightly wrapped packages were a delight to open when a heart expected none. However, the real memory of that Christmas came... because Jesus showed up in a very personal way.

That baby born in a manger so very long ago, came and brought to our little hearts the gift of His love, His concern, and His mercy. My young heart recognized that it truly was not about the presents under the tree, but about the gift Jesus brings to our hearts.

It was about a Jesus who looked down from heaven, saw a family who had been through a tough year, saw them rejoicing in the real meaning of Christmas, and decided to show a piece of Himself. It was about a Jesus who took the time to show He cared... even about the silly and frivolous desires of our heart. It was about a Jesus who took the time to say, "I love you" in a way that no other Christmas gift could do.

To this day I still think back on that Christmas with tears in my eyes. I ponder on the truth I learned that year. I treasure in my heart, much as Mary did, the real gift of the season. It truly is not about the gift in the wrapping.

It is about the gift of friendship and love we extend to each other. It is about the gift of family we so often take for granted. Above all, it is about the greatest gift ever given. The first Christmas gift of all... a baby, born to a virgin and laid in a manger.
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Now it's your turn. Post your favorite Christmas memory at your site. Link that page in Mr. Linky below. If you are not sure how to use Mr. Linky... e-mail me and I would be happy to help! (Note: if you e-mail me it may take some time to respond. I now have an all day meeting at work I must attend. I promise I will get back to you though!)

I am so very eager to read each and every one of your memories. Let the sharing begin...

32 thoughts shared:

chickadee said...

what a wonderful memory! what a blessing for your family.

i wrote mine tonight and cried all the way through it. i guess it was good for me to get through that. i didn't even know what i was going to write until i did it but i knew it would be about my grandparents.

can't wait to read more.

Pamela said...

What a touching Christmas memory! You were blessed with loving parents who gave you a Christmas filled with heart and the true meaning of Christmas! The very best gift of all is to have a family such as yours.

What a wonderful surprise for you to wake up to Christmas morning!

Thoughtful of you to host A Favorite Christmas Memory! Thank You! :)

shannon @ rocks in my dryer said...

MomRN2, that is beautiful.

lrlwreath said...

That is beautiful and brought tears to my eyes.

Sissy B. said...

I so enjoyed reading your Christmas memory...can't wait to visit the other participants! Thanks for this respite from our busy schedules...it truly helped in altering my perspective. God Bless!

Anonymous said...

I'm going to post on this later today!
What a great idea!

Kim

Barbara H. said...

Thank you -- that was beautiful!

Barb said...

What a beautiful post. I can just feel your parents' pain when they had to tell you there'd be no gifts that year. I can also imagine how joyous they were when the kindness of people who knew your family changed that.

The fact that the gifts were marked, "from Jesus" is the best part of this memory. How perfect.

Anonymous said...

What a blessing that memory is for you! Thank you for hosting this-I have enjoyed thinking about my many favorite Christmas memory

Heather said...

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing it. I too have tears in my eyes, and running down my face.

~ Brandilyn Collins said...

I can only echo the other commenters. This was a beautiful post. Thank you so much. In all the haste to Christmas shop, etc.--it's posts and reminders like this that shine.

Blessings to you.

Holly said...

As I'm not sure if my article pingback will come this way I thought I'd drop a comment in as well. What a great idea to share memories! Thanks!

Hugs,
Holly
Holly's Corner
Here from Whippoorwill Chronicles. ;o)

Morning Glory said...

What a beautiful story! It's so amazing when the needs are met in such incredible ways.

Judith said...

Thank you so much for sharing your memories of that once in a lifetime Christmas.

My blog is Flight Song. I don't know how to put certain information into Blogland, or how to do links, but I will share a special long ago Christmas with anyone who'd like to read it. Merry Christmas!

org junkie said...

Your memory was very touching as I sit here wiping my eyes. Thanks for sharing it with us. Laura

Mommy Dearest said...

I tried to read this out loud to my daughter, and I've just sat and cried. What a special memory. Thanks for sharing.

Anonymous said...

This was so beautiful! I put mine up, too.

Looking forward to reading all the others when I have time.

Great idea and great hostess!

Blessed Beyond Measure said...

Isn't it amazing that the Christmas when you expected to receive the least, you received the most, and that receiving had nothing to do with the presents that arrived. What a gift your parents gave you that night. I so enjoyed this - completely warmed my heart as much as if I'd been sitting there right by that fire. xooxxo

on the Rock said...

A truly powerful story and memory! Thank you for sharing and allowing us to share too.
Blessings!

Linda said...

I hope you are providing a box of tissues too!! That is such a beautful story. I think you should submit if for publication. In the meantime, thank you so much for blessing us with the beautiful message of the real meaning of Christmas. Thank you too for this wonderful idea and for inviting us into your quiet corner. It is so special.

Linda said...

Leave it to me to mess everything up!! I don't know how I got on the list THREE times!! And I don't know what the delete thing means. I am sooo sorry. I need a computer course in the worst possible way.

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful memory! I put mine up, too, but I'm having a hard time posting a comment. UGH. Thanks for hosting this Christmas Memory Time.

Rebekah at Sweet Tea With Lemon

Linds said...

I echo the others when I say what a wonderful and special memory you shared with us all. Thanks for a lovely idea. This is the first time I have linked anything so I hope I got it right.

Anonymous said...

what a beautiful memory. Thanks for hosting this. What a lovely site you have.

Anonymous said...

Momrn2,

Thanks for the invitation, I found your site on Wednesday the 6th and I've been thinking about starting a blog of my own, but kept putting it off. I started my blog last night, thinking I'm not going to do a Christmas memory because my blog sight is so new, but after reading your memory and knowing the memory that I would write about, I just had to because I really felt this was definately a God incident that I found your sight. You had a very exciting memory and I know just how your parents felt that morning long ago! But that doesn't even compare to how Mary and Joseph felt that Christmas long ago.

Cheri said...

I just love the Christmas music playing when I open your blog. I'm just not the smart to be able to do that on my site. And with the whole dial up thing, some days I'm just grateful to have internet access at all!

Renee said...

I wrote about something that just happened to our family this year! Precious Holiday blessings to all!

Dawn said...

What a great story well written. We had some pretty lean years as well, but I just remember the love we had.

Anonymous said...

you made me cry! so very touching!!

Linda said...

Thank you for doing this and for sharing. I was really touched and felt "quieted" in my spirit to reflect on that Great Gift.

sagerats said...

What a fun idea! I found this from another blogger who participated. There are some great reads here.

Abiding in the Vine!

Tash said...

That is a lovely memory.

I feel for your parents having to say there would be no presents - our instinct as parents is to give to our children and make them happy so it would have been tough for them.
This is one of my favourite Christmas memories - http://lovesanta.com.au/blog/2007/being-santa/